In dating, one of the things most people do
not give enough credence to is the law of attraction. The law of
attraction is a simple concept, which is that whatever you send out into
the universe will attract corresponding thoughts, emotions, beliefs and
actions.
So, how does this apply to dating? The
signals you send out, the thoughts you send out, and the actions you
send out are going to attract like, which means you can control who you
attract by controlling what you send out. If you send out the wrong
signals, you are going to attract the wrong people. People complain
about their inability to find the right person, but according to the law
of attraction, this is your own fault. Let's look at a couple of
examples of this:
What you think about yourself. Let's say you go on a date and the person you go out with is really attractive. If you think that they are out of your league, then they are. You do not have to be a model, or the smartest, or most athletic person to be considered a catch. The trick is you believing you are a catch. People with high self-esteem seem to attract more people than those who do not believe that they are worth someone's time or attention. If you don't believe it about yourself, how can anyone else? So, if you want people to think you are hot, then send the thought into the universe, and it will attract like thoughts. If you want people to think you are funny, then you have to think you are funny. The more positive thoughts you send out, the more positive thoughts that you will attract.
How you act. This is a common problem with girls. They get frustrated that a guy only wants "sex" or is pressuring them for the physical. However, they tease, allude, dress provocatively. The point is, if you do not act interested in that, then you are not going to get people pushing that on you.
Need proof that the law of attraction works? Look around you. How many people that you think are "ugly" are married, happy, or dating someone? How many times have you seen a boy or girl that is less attractive than you are attract someone you would want to date, and you didn't attract them? The world is full of over-weight, under-educated, uncoordinated people who find love. You are in control of your thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and actions. Send out positive things, and get positive things in return. If you believe you will succeed, chances are you will. However, if you believe that you will fail, you most definitely will.
This does not mean that no one will ever escape the downfalls of thinking poorly of themselves, the fact is, the law of attraction can be applied to dating, and the more positive you are, the more positive your experience is going to be.
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What you think about yourself. Let's say you go on a date and the person you go out with is really attractive. If you think that they are out of your league, then they are. You do not have to be a model, or the smartest, or most athletic person to be considered a catch. The trick is you believing you are a catch. People with high self-esteem seem to attract more people than those who do not believe that they are worth someone's time or attention. If you don't believe it about yourself, how can anyone else? So, if you want people to think you are hot, then send the thought into the universe, and it will attract like thoughts. If you want people to think you are funny, then you have to think you are funny. The more positive thoughts you send out, the more positive thoughts that you will attract.
How you act. This is a common problem with girls. They get frustrated that a guy only wants "sex" or is pressuring them for the physical. However, they tease, allude, dress provocatively. The point is, if you do not act interested in that, then you are not going to get people pushing that on you.
Need proof that the law of attraction works? Look around you. How many people that you think are "ugly" are married, happy, or dating someone? How many times have you seen a boy or girl that is less attractive than you are attract someone you would want to date, and you didn't attract them? The world is full of over-weight, under-educated, uncoordinated people who find love. You are in control of your thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and actions. Send out positive things, and get positive things in return. If you believe you will succeed, chances are you will. However, if you believe that you will fail, you most definitely will.
This does not mean that no one will ever escape the downfalls of thinking poorly of themselves, the fact is, the law of attraction can be applied to dating, and the more positive you are, the more positive your experience is going to be.
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