Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Men are in love with looks at first sight

Men are in love with looks at first sight. While in an ideal world everyone would look at a person's personality, beliefs, morals, and other attributes, and not put as much weight on physical attractiveness, it is not an ideal world. The sooner women realize that a man is going to look for looks first, the sooner they find happiness in dating. It stinks, but it is true. So, quit reading books about love, quit trying to "figure men out" and start working on improving your looks. Sad as it is, this is the fastest way to meet men. Don't use the excuse of "I don't want a man who only likes me because of how I look." Because that is every man, at least initially. Of course men can develop depth of feelings that go beyond looks, but looks are the hook that first grabs them.
The following are some tips for improving looks in order to help me be "in love" with you at first sight:
1. Start with your hair. You need to find a cut, color, and style that works for your face, and that you can do. Sure long, flowing locks, are wonderful, and those lose curls that frame the face are lovely, but if you do not know how to make your hair do that, then find a cut that looks good in a style you do know how to do. Your hair can say a lot about who you are, but having it be a mess, or a grease trap is going to be a big turn off, so cut, color, and style. Learn how to do it, and make sure that you wake up early enough, and buy the right tools so that you do it every day!
2. Consider your figure. While men like a wide range of figures, from fuller to stick thin, the fact of the matter is, getting to the gym, exercising, decreasing your waist line, and flattening your tummy is not going to hurt your chances with them. Men like women who are fit, and women like themselves better when they have dropped the pounds, and look good. So, if you want to attract men, then work on your body. It is not the most important thing in the world, but you know that when you meet a guy you look at their body, well, so do men. Make yours worth looking at.
3. Make-up basics. Men like a woman whose face is pretty, and makeup is going to help. It can cover your blemishes, and can make your best features stand out more, such as your full lips, or long lashes. So, learn how to use your makeup right so that you do not have a "cake" face, and you highlight the features that are your best. It is worth it to buy some quality make-up products, you will look better and have more confidence in yourself.
4. Your clothes. Your clothes say a lot about who you are, your personality, your level of maintenance, and even your hygiene. This is how you help a guy like you for who you are, not just how you look, but you still have to make it look good. This means have well thought out outfits that work for your body type, and that make you look put together. Even a tee-shirt and jeans can look great with the right accessories and if the cut and fit work for your figure.
5. Your scent. Scent is very powerful, find a great perfume, and don't put too much on!

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